What is it? One Christian helping another figure out how to respond to God in everyday life. The process sometimes gets started because the person seeking guidance has experienced pain, loss, anxiety, alienation, dissatisfaction or depression. The goal of spiritual direction is orientation toward the divine Mystery who guides life from its very center.

What does a spiritual director do? S/he helps the other Christian discover what God is saying through the events and relationships of life. A good spiritual director also reflects what the other person is saying, especially if that person is not fully aware of the implications of what s/he is saying.

How frequent are the meetings? There is no set rule, but most people choose to meet with a spiritual director about once a month. Sometimes it is better to meet more frequently, especially at first.

What do they talk about? The presence and action of God in life. Since God is everywhere, they can talk about whatever is going on in relationship not only directly with God, but also with other people, work, the physical aspects of life, institutions, groups, and events. The sharpest focus spiritual direction can take is to talk about what happens in prayer.

Is it like confession? It is not a Sacrament, there need be no confession of sin in spiritual direction, there is no rite of absolution, and the spiritual director is often not a priest.

Is the relationship with a spiritual director confidential? Yes, but not to the degree that the Sacrament of Reconciliation is. It is important to discuss this matter at the very first meeting with a spiritual director.

How is it different from therapy and counseling? Check out the table on the next page.

Is there a fee for spiritual direction? A contribution of $25 - $50 is requested for each session of about an hour. Thanks to a generous benefactor who created an Outreach Fund in memory of his grandmother, funds are available to individuals who may want services provided by this Center but who may not be able to afford our fees. However, we ask that some contribution be made to the Center. Each person may decide the amount and we will make up the difference from the Outreach Fund.

How do you get started? Call 410-728-6464 to discuss the matter with no obligation to make an appointment. If you want to look into it further, you can request the free brochure, " Is Spiritual Direction for Me?"